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Quality Time: Utilizing Presence in Building a Lasting Love

Solitude Seeker
3 min readJan 24, 2022

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What are love languages and why am I writing about quality time?

Now is your time to learn a little bit more about ways to show love to others who appreciate quality time!

Plot twist, if YOU are a person who speaks this love language, there are some tips on how you can add it to personalizing your self-care and self-love practices, too!

Quality Time

I like to consider this love language as providing presence.

The author of the 5 Love Languages describes it as “giving someone your undivided attention.” This means, removing distractions and spending some one-on-one time if in a couple or isolated alone time if for self-care.

Focus your attention, do quality activities, and have quality conversations!

Quantity Doesn’t Cut It

Quantity is not enough for someone who needs to be loved through quality time. Even more, it is hurtful if you promise quality time, but end up being distracted during the interaction.

If you have plans together, do your best to stick to it, otherwise you could be breaking your partner’s heart a little and over time, a lot.

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Solitude Seeker
Solitude Seeker

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